Nelson,
I know you were hurting yesterday, but it reminded me firsthand of why I'm leaving you. Do you really think that I won't fear you (even if, God forbid, I did come back to you), when you lose control and spew hatred in the manner which you did? Perhaps I've always been a bit controlling, but likewise you've never exhibited common sense. The restraint required for me to refrain from a chorus of "I hate you!"s is immense.
Josie